The Desire Diagnostic Call
A 30-Minute Clarity Conversation
Low or absent desire is rarely about one thing.
Most men assume desire fades because of age, hormones, stress, or relationship issues. In reality, desire is often suppressed by a combination of conditions and a lack of specific, learnable skills.
The Desire Diagnostic Call is a free, 30-minute conversation designed to help you understand what’s actually going on.
Book a Desire Diagnostic CallWhat This Call Is (and Isn’t)
This is not therapy.
This is not a sales pitch.
And it’s not about blaming you or your partner.
It’s a structured conversation where we look at:
- What conditions may be quietly suppressing desire
- What skills may be missing or underdeveloped
- Where presence, attunement, communication, or touch may be breaking down
Clarity often brings relief before anything “changes.”
What We Explore Together
1. Desire Killers
These are conditions that suppress desire, often without either partner realizing it.
They may include:
- Chronic stress or nervous system overload
- Performance pressure or fear of getting it wrong
- Emotional disconnection or unspoken resentment
- Habitual rushing or lack of presence
- Past experiences that trained the body to brace instead of relax
* Most men are dealing with more than one of these at the same time.
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2. Desire Builders
These are learnable skills that rebuild desire over time.
We’ll explore whether you currently have:
- The ability to stay present during intimacy
- Attunement to how your partner’s body is responding
- Clear, grounded communication around wants and limits
- Touch that nourishes connection rather than escalates pressure
When these skills are missing, desire often fades even in loving relationships.
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What You’ll Walk Away With
By the end of the call, you’ll have:
- A clearer understanding of why desire has changed
- Language for what’s actually happening instead of guessing
- Insight into whether 1:1 coaching, group coaching, or no coaching at all makes sense
Some men feel immediate relief simply naming what’s been invisible.
Who This Call Is For
This conversation is for men who:
- Want to understand desire rather than force it
- Are open to learning new skills
- Are willing to look honestly at how they show up
- Prefer clarity over quick fixes
Who This Call Is Not For
This call may not be a fit if:
- You’re looking for a magic solution or guarantee
- You want to change your partner without changing yourself
- You’re not open to slowing down and learning
This work rewards patience, curiosity, and honesty.
Booking Policy
Please note that there will be at least a 48-hour time frame or longer between the day you look at my calendar availability and book a call (never same day appointments). If you cancel at the last minute, you will not be given another opportunity to book another call with me. Both of our times are valuable to me and this policy helps keep my calendar available to individuals ready to improve their intimacy.