Sex Worth Having is a modern approach to intimacy for men in long-term relationships who want more than mechanical sex, more than duty sex, and more than silence.
Here, intimacy is not about performance.
It’s about presence, attunement, communication, and touch.
This is for you if:
- You’re a man over 50 in a committed relationship
- Your partner’s desire has changed and you don’t know why
- You want to feel confident, grounded, and welcome in intimacy
- You’re open to learning skills instead of chasing quick fixes
This is not for you if:
- You’re looking for tricks, scripts, or bedroom hacks
- You believe intimacy problems are entirely your partner’s fault
- You’re not willing to slow down or examine your role
The Core Philosophy
Most intimacy struggles aren’t caused by low libido.
They’re caused by disconnection.
Presence
staying grounded instead of rushing or performing
Attunement
 reading and responding to your partner’s body
Communication
expressing desire without pressure or defensiveness
Touch
creating safety, pleasure, and trust through contact
WAYS TO WORK WITH ME
The Podcast
Short, practical conversations for men who want a better relationship with intimacy, desire, and themselves.
 1:1 Coaching
Private coaching for men who want clarity, confidence, and real change in their intimate relationship.
Online Classes
Skill-based classes that teach presence, attunement, communication, and nourishing touch in a clear, respectful way.
About Clare
I’m Clare Sente, an intimacy coach, body-based practitioner, and guide for men who want deeper connection without shame, pressure, or performance.
I help men slow down, reconnect to their bodies, and become more trustworthy lovers, not by doing more, but by being more present.
If you’re ready to understand what’s actually getting in the way of intimacy and what to do about it, start here.
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No pressure. No fixing. Just clarity.
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